Intentional conversations for relationships.
Speak what matters. Build connection, intimacy, and love.
At Our Spoken Love, therapy is more than talking—it’s about changing how you experience each other.
J. Kipp Lanning, LIMHP, LPC, is a sex-positive therapist and member of AASECT providing couples counseling, marriage counseling, and sex therapy in Omaha, Nebraska and via telehealth across the state. He works with individuals and couples to repair, strengthen, and reconnect in their relationships. Whether you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward, you’re in a place where that can change.
Common areas of focus include:
- Libido mismatch and intimacy concerns
- Affair and sexual betrayal recovery
- Sexual dysfunction and sex therapy concerns
- Conflict and communication patterns that feel unproductive or damaging
- Relationships that have lost their sense of closeness, energy, or “aliveness”
Kipp integrates evidence-based approaches including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to support meaningful change in couples therapy and relationship counseling. The goal isn’t just insight—it’s helping you shift patterns in real time so you can respond to each other differently.
You can expect therapy to be active and collaborative. You’ll learn and practice skills in session, build clarity around your needs, and develop new ways of responding that create safety, trust, and connection.
When relevant, deeper concerns such as anxiety, depression, trauma, and attachment patterns are also addressed—because what happens outside the relationship often shows up within it.
You don’t have to keep having the same conversations or feeling the same distance. There is a way to move forward—with more clarity, connection, and intention.
